Islam Question and Answer - He feels that something is discharged when he talks to women

Mon 6/12/1430 - 23/11/2009

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He feels that something is discharged when he talks to women

Right i have this embarrassing problem that, i try to read namaz by i cannot because i have some kind of discharge from the private part. I do talk to girls but i do not get an errection or anything and this liquid comes out, maybe it is because of girls but u cannot help that in this society, i am not talking in the wrong way and stuff. I do not know why this is happening? I want to know it is not sperm. So does my wudu break and what do i do to get rid of this discharge of this fluid. I am really stuck. Pls e-mail urgently?

Praise be to Allaah.

It is haraam for you to look at women in the first place, let alone talk to them, even if it is as you say, that you do not talk to them in a bad way, because this is something that may lead you to haraam actions. See Question # 1200, 1121. With regard to this liquid, it is not maniy (sperm). See Question # 2458 for the difference between maniy (sperm) and madhiy (prostatic fluid) and the rulings concerning them. You have to keep away from such things, especially since, as you say, you are praying and reciting dhikr. Do not use the society in which you live as an excuse, because this is one of the tricks and traps of the Shaytaan; undoubtedly there are men with whom you may speak in a manner that is pleasing to Allaah. Remember the hadeeth of the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): “Whoever believes in Allaah and the Last Day, let him say something good or else keep silent.”

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Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid