Praise be to Allaah.
The correct way to perform ruqyah for a small child in order
to protect him is what the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon
him) used to do for his (grand)sons al-Hasan and al-Husayn (may Allah be
pleased with them).
Al-Bukhaari (3371) narrated that Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allah be
pleased with him) said: The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon
him) used to seek refuge with Allah for al-Hasan and al-Husayn, and he said:
“Your father (Ibraaheem) used to seek refuge with (these words) for
Ismaa‘eel and Ishaaq: A‘oodhu bi kalimaat Illaahi’t-taammah min kulli
shaytaanin wa haammah wa min kulli ‘aynin laammah (I seek refuge in the
perfect words of Allaah from every devil and every vermin, and from every
bad eye)”.
Ibn Hajar said in Fath al-Baari (6/410):
The word “haammah (vermin)” refers to poisonous
things.
The words “from every bad eye” – al-Khattaabi said: What is
meant by this is every disease and ailment that may affect a person of
insanity and confusion. End quote.
It is also mustahabb when performing ruqyah for children to
recite al-Mu‘awwidhatayn (the last two soorahs of the Qur’an) over them and
to wipe their bodies whilst reciting, or to recite them into one’s hands and
blow in them, spitting lightly, then wipe them over whatever of their body
one can reach, or to recite them into water and wipe them or wash them with
it. The Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to seek
refuge for himself and others by means of these two soorahs.
It was narrated that Abu Sa‘eed al-Khudri (may Allah be
pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah
be upon him) used to seek refuge with Allah from the jinn and people’s eyes
(i.e., the evil eye) until the Mu‘aawidhatayn were revealed, then when they
were revealed he began to recite them for protection and stopped reciting
anything else.
Narrated by at-Tirmidhi (2058); classed as saheeh by
al-Albaani in Saheeh at-Tirmidhi.
Blowing with a little saliva after reciting the
Mu‘aawidhatayn is taken from the practice of the Prophet (blessings and
peace of Allah be upon him) just before going to sleep. He used to recite
them into his hands and blow into them, then wipe his body with his hands.
When he fell sick, ‘Aa’ishah used to do that for him, which indicates that
in the case of a small child, his mother can recite the Mu‘aawidhatayn and
blow (into her hands) and wipe his body with them.
It was narrated that ‘Aa’ishah (may Allah be pleased with
her) said: When the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon
him) went to his bed, he would blow into his hands after reciting Qul
Huwa Allaahu Ahad (Soorat al-Ikhlaas) and the Mu‘aawidhatayn, then he
would wipe his face and whatever he could reach of his body with his hands.
‘Aa’ishah said: And when he fell sick, he would tell me to do that for him.
Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5748).
With regard to the adkhaar for the morning and evening, there
is no report – as far as we know – to suggest that they may be recited over
others with the intention of performing ruqyah, so we do not advise you to
carry on doing that; rather you should limit it to what has been proven from
the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), for that is
sufficient. The best of guidance is the guidance of Muhammad (blessings and
peace of Allah be upon him).
And Allah knows best.