Praise be to Allaah.
The scholars have stated
that gheebah is permitted in certain situations:
1-
Complaining. It is
permissible for the one who has been wronged to complain to the ruler or
judge and others who have the authority or ability to settle the score with
the one who wronged him.
2-
Seeking help to change evil
and bring the sinner back to the right path, so he may say to the one who he
hopes is able to do something: “So and so is doing such and such; tell him
not to do it.”
3-
Seeking advice or a fatwa,
by saying to the mufti, “So and so/my father/my brother has wronged me by
doing such and such, does he have the right to do that? How can I solve this
problem and ward off his harm from me?”
4-
Warning the Muslims of
someone’s evil, such as highlighting the weakness of some reporters or
witnesses or authors. That also includes seeing someone buying faulty goods,
or someone keeping company with one who is a thief or adulterer, or giving a
female relative of his to such a man in marriage, and the like. You should
tell them about that by way of sincere advice, not with the aim of causing
harm and spreading mischief.
5-
If a person openly commits
evil or follows bid’ah, such as drinking alcohol and seizing people’s wealth
unlawfully, it is permissible to speak of what he is doing openly, but it is
not permissible to speak against him any other way, unless it is for another
reason.
6-
For identification, if
someone is known by a nickname such as the dim-sighted one, or the blind man
or the one-eyed or the lame one, it is permissible to identify him as such,
but it is haraam to mention that by way of belittling him, and if it is
possible to identify him in some other way, that is better.
It says in Fataawa
al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah li’l-Ifta (26/20): Speaking about a person in his
absence is permissible in certain situations as indicated by shar’i
evidence, if there is a need for that, such as if someone consults you about
arranging a marriage to him, or entering into a business partnership with
him, or if someone complains to the authorities to put a stop to his
wrongdoing. In that case there is nothing wrong with saying things about him
that he may not like to be said, because there is an interest to be served
by that. One of the scholars summed up in two lines of poetry the situations
in which it is permissible to talk about a person in his absence, and said:
Criticizing is not gheebah
in six (cases) – complaining, identifying, warning,
When the person is
committing evil openly, when advice is sought, and when one is asking for
help in removing an evil.
End quote.
And Allaah knows best.