Praise be to Allaah.
We do not think that you should enter this program, because
of what it involves of looking at women’s ‘awrahs unnecessarily. Allaah says
(interpretation of the meaning):
“Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking
at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual
acts). That is purer for them. Verily, Allaah is All‑Aware of what they do”
[al-Noor 24:30].
See also the answers to questions no.
85622 and
5693.
Rushing to graduate is not regarded as a case of necessity,
even if it is for the sake of serving your father. You can reconcile the two
interests according to what you are able to do. You can appoint whoever you
think is suitable to do this service, even if it means paying them, if there
is no one in your family who can do it for free.
We appreciate your eagerness to serve your father and we
appreciate your keenness to adhere to shar’i limits. We ask Allaah to decree
for you the reward of that, and we ask Allaah to decree a speedy recovery
for your father, and to give him both reward and well being.
And Allaah knows best.