Praise be to Allaah.
We have previously discussed the ruling on divorce issued in
a state of anger, and we have stated that divorce issued in a state of
extreme anger in which a person does not have control of himself does not
count as such.
See the answer to question no.
Based on that, if the second, third, fourth and fifth
divorces (talaaqs) were all issued by you in a state of extreme anger, they
do not count as such.
The divorce that does count as such is only one, namely the
first divorce that you issued when you were not angry. And you can resume
life with your wife in a natural manner, whilst striving to gain
self-control, and so not hasten to utter the word of divorce every time
there is a difference of opinion or argument.
If a man said to his wife, “You are not my wife”, this is a
kind of implicit divorce and it counts as such if he intended divorce
Bringing witnesses to witness the divorce is mustahabb
because Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
“Then when they are about to fulfil their term appointed,
either take them back in a good manner or part with them in a good manner.
And take for witness two just persons from among you (Muslims)”
But that is not an essential condition of the divorce being
counted as such or being regarded as valid. If a man utters the word of
divorce (talaaq) then his divorce counts as such, even if that divorce is
not witnessed by anyone.
This has been discussed previously in the answer to question
no. 119459 and