Praise be to Allaah.
The rights that one Muslim has over another are many, some of
which are individual obligations that are required of each person, and if he
fails to do them he is sinning. Others are communal obligations; if some
people do them, the burden of sin is waived for the rest. And some are
mustahabb (encouraged) but not obligatory, so the Muslim is not sinning if
he does not do them.
Al-Bukhaari (1240) and Muslim (2162) narrated that Abu
Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: I heard the Messenger of
Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) say: “The rights of one
Muslim over another are five: returning the greeting of salaam, visiting the
sick, attending funerals, accepting invitations, and saying yarhamuk
Allah (may Allah have mercy on you) to one who sneezes.”
And Muslim (2162) narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be
pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah
be upon him) said: “The rights of one Muslim over another are six.” It was
said: What are they, O Messenger of Allaah? He said: “If you meet him, greet
him with salaam; if he invites you, accept the invitation; if he asks for
advice, give him sincere advice; if he sneezes and praises Allaah, say
Yarhamuk Allaah (may Allaah have mercy on you); if he falls sick, visit
him; and if he dies, attend his funeral.”
Ash-Shawkaani (may Allah have mercy on him) said: What is
meant by the words “The rights of the Muslim” is that they should not be
omitted and doing them is either obligatory, or recommended to such an
extent that it is very similar to being obligatory and should not be
omitted. The word “right” (haqq) may be used in the sense of obligatory, as
was mentioned by Ibn al-A‘raabi.
End quote from Nayl al-Awtaar, 4/21
1.
Returning the greeting of salaam is obligatory if the
greeting is given to one person. If it is given to a group, then it is
obligatory upon the group (fard kifaayah or communal obligation; if
one of the group returns the greeting, the obligation as been met). With
regard to initiating the greeting, the basic principle is that it is Sunnah.
It says in al-Mawsoo‘ah al-Fiqhiyyah (11/314):
Initiating the greeting is Sunnah mu’akkadah (a confirmed
Sunnah) because the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said:
“Spread the greeting of salaam amongst yourselves.” It is obligatory to
return the greeting if it is given to one person. If the greeting is given
to a group, then in their case responding is a fard kifaayah (communal
obligation); if one of them responds the sin is waived from the others, but
if they all respond, they have all done what is required, Whether they
respond all together or one after another. If they all refrain from
responding, then they are all sinning because of the report which says: “The
rights of one Muslim over another are five: returning (the greeting) of
salaam…”
End quote.
2.
Visiting the sick it is a communal obligation. Shaykh Ibn
‘Uthaymeen said:
Visiting the sick is a fard kifaayah (communal obligation).
Majmoo‘ Fataawa wa Rasaa’il Ibn ‘Uthaymeen,
13/1085
See also the answer to question no.
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3.
Attending funerals is also a fard kifaayah (communal
obligation). See the answer to question no.
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4.
With regard to accepting invitations, if the invitation is to
a wedding feast, then the majority of scholars are of the view that it is
obligatory to accept unless there is a legitimate shar‘i reason not to do
so. If it is for something other than a wedding feast, the majority are of
the view that it is mustahabb. But there are conditions for accepting
invitations in general terms. For details of that please see the answer to
question no. 22006
5.
With regard to saying Yarhamuk Allah (May Allah have
mercy on you) to one who sneezes, there is a difference of opinion
concerning the ruling.
It says in al-Mawsoo‘ah al-Fiqhiyyah, 4/22:
This saying Yarhamuk Allah (May Allah have mercy on
you) is Sunnah according to the Shaafa‘is.
According to the Hanbalis and the Hanafis, it is obligatory.
The Maalikis said – and it is an opinion among the Hanbalis –
that it is a communal obligation. It was narrated from al-Bayaan that the
stronger view is that it is an individual obligation (fard ‘ayn), because of
the hadeeth: “It is the duty of every Muslim who hears him (the one who
sneezes) to say: Yarhamuk Allah (may Allah have mercy on you). End quote
The more correct opinion is that it is obligatory on the one
who hears the sneezer praise Allah (by saying “Al-hamdu Lillah”),
because of the report narrated by al-Bukhaari (6223) from Abu Hurayrah (may
Allah be pleased with him) from the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be
upon him) who said: “Allaah likes the act of sneezing and dislikes the act
of yawning, so if any one of you sneezes and praises Allaah (says ‘al-hamdu
Lillaah’), it is a duty on every Muslim who hears him to say to him,
‘Yarhamuk Allaah (may Allaah have mercy on you).’”
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said: We have
quoted above the hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah, in which it says: “if any one of
you sneezes and praises Allaah (says ‘al-hamdu Lillaah’), it is a
duty (haqq) on every Muslim who hears him to say to him, ‘Yarhamuk
Allaah (may Allaah have mercy on you).”. al-Tirmidhi included the
hadeeth of Anas under the heading: Chapter on what was narrated about it
being obligatory to say Yarhamuk Allah (may Allah have mercy on you)
when one who sneezes says Al-hamdu Lillah (Praise be to Allah). This
indicates that it is obligatory in his view, and this is the correct view,
because of the hadeeths that clearly indicate that it is obligatory and
there was nothing to contradict that, and Allah knows best.
One of them is the hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah mentioned above,
and another is his other hadeeth, “There are five (rights) that the Muslim
has over his brother,” which is also mentioned above. Another is the hadeeth
of Saalim ibn ‘Ubayd, in which it says: “Let those who are with him say to
him: Yarhamuk Allah (may Allah have mercy on you).” And another is
the report narrated by at-Tirmidhi from ‘Ali who said: The Messenger of
Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “The Muslim has six
(rights) over his fellow-Muslim: he should greet him with salaam when he
meets him; he should respond when he invites him; he should say Yarhamuk
Allah (may Allah have mercy on you) if he sneezes; he should visit him
if he falls sick; he should attend his funeral if he dies; and he should
love for him what he loves for himself.” He (at-Tirmidhi) said: This is a
hasan hadeeth. It was also narrated via another isnaad from the Prophet
(blessings and peace of Allah be upon him). Some of the scholars spoke
negatively about al-Haarith al-A‘war (one of the narrators). In the same
chapter it is also narrated from Abu Hurayrah, Abu Ayyoob, al-Bara’ and Abu
Mas‘ood. And another of these hadeeths is that which was narrated by
at-Tirmidhi from Abu Ayyoob, according to which the Messenger of Allah
(blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) said: “If one of you sneezes, let
him say Al-hamdu Lillah (praise be to Allah); and let him say ‘ala
kulli haal (in all circumstances). And let the one who responds to him
say: Yarhamuk Allah (may Allah have mercy on you). And let him say:
Yahdikum Allahu wa yuslih baalakum (May Allah guide you and set your
affairs straight).
There are four kinds of proof in the hadeeth quoted above
(“if any one of you sneezes and praises Allaah (says ‘al-hamdu Lillaah’), it
is a duty (haqq) on every Muslim who hears him to say to him,
‘Yarhamuk Allaah (may Allaah have mercy on you)”):
(i)
there is a clear statement that
it is obligatory to say Yarhamuk Allah (may Allah have mercy on you),
which cannot be interpreted in any other way;
(ii)
it is made obligatory by use of
the word haqq (translated above as duty);
(iii)
it is made obligatory by use of
the word ‘ala (on). This word clearly means that it is obligatory
(iv)
it is enjoined. There can be no
doubt that there are many duties that are proven to be obligatory on the
basis of less evidence than this. And Allah knows best.
End quote from Haashiyat Ibn al-Qayyim ‘ala Sunan Abi
Dawood, 13/259
He also said: The apparent meaning of the hadeeth mentioned
above is that saying Yarhamuk Allah is an individual obligation upon
everyone who hears the one who sneezed say Al-hamdu Lillah; it is not
acceptable for just one of them to say it. This is one of the two scholarly
opinions, which was favoured by the Maalikis Ibn Abi Zayd and Abu Bakr ibn
al-‘Arabi, and it cannot be otherwise.
End quote from Zaad al-Ma‘aad, 2/437
6.
With regard to giving him advice if he asks for it, it is
most likely that offering advice is a communal obligation.
Ibn Muflih (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
The apparent meaning of the words of Ahmad and our companions
is that it is obligatory to offer advice to the Muslim, even if he does not
ask for it, as is the apparent meaning of the reports.
End quote from al-Adaab ash-Shar‘iyyah by Ibn Muflih,
1/307
Al-Mullah ‘Ali al-Qaari (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
“If he asks you for advice” means if he asks you for advice,
then give it to him; it is obligatory. It is also obligatory to give advice
even if he did not ask for it.
End quote from Mirqaat al-Mafaateeh, 5/213
al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
It is clear that what is meant by “duty” (haqq) here
is that it is obligatory. This is different from the words of Ibn Battaal
who said that what is meant is the duty of respect and companionship. It
seems that what is meant here is that it is a communal obligation.
End quote from Fath al-Baari, 3/113
And Allah knows best.