Praise be to Allaah.
Saying Bismillaah at the time of intercourse is mentioned in
the hadeeth of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him):
“If one of you says, when he has intercourse with his wife: ‘Bismillaah,
Allaahumma jannibni al-Shaytaana wa jannib al-Shaytaana ma razaqtana (In
the name of Allaah, O Allaah, keep the Shaytaan away from me and keep the
Shaytaan away from that which You bestow upon us),’ if it is decreed that
they should have a child, the Shaytaan will never harm him.”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5165; Muslim, 1434.
With regard to how this benefits the child, the scholars
differed as to what is meant by the words of the Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him), “the Shaytaan will never harm him.” There
are many opinions:
1-
That what it means is that the
Shaytaan will control him because of the blessing of saying Bismillaah,
rather he will be one of the people of whom it was said: “Certainly, you
shall have no authority over My slaves” [al-Hijr 15:42].
2-
It means that he will never
harm him physically.
3-
It means that this is a means
of his being protected from shirk and kufr.
4-
It means that he will keep away
from major sins.
5-
And it was said that he will
not be harmed by the Shaytaan’s participation in his father’s having
intercourse with his mother, as it was narrated that Mujaahid said: The one
who has intercourse and does not say Bismillaah, the Shaytaan wraps himself
around his penis and has intercourse along with him.
Ibn Hajar said: Perhaps this is the most correct answer. But
the first answer may also be correct, especially since we know that many
people who know about the great blessing of saying Bismillaah may forget all
about it at the time of intercourse, and for the few who may remember it and
say it, pregnancy may not occur. If this is very rare, then it is possible
that the first answer may be correct.