Praise be to Allaah.
Humility is one of the greatest blessings
that Allaah can bestow upon His slave. He says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And by the Mercy of Allaah, you dealt
with them gently. And had you been severe and harsh-hearted, they would have broken away from about you”
[Aal ‘Imraan 3:159]
“And verily, you (O Muhammad) are on an
exalted (standard of) character”
This refers to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) being a true slave
of Allaah in many ways and his treating all people with the utmost kindness. His character was one of complete humility based on sincerity towards
Allaah and compassion towards the slaves of Allaah, which was the complete opposite of the characteristics of the proud and arrogant.
Al-Majmoo’ al-Kaamilah li Mu’allafaat
al-Shaykh al-Sa’di, 5/442, 443
There are many means of attaining humility, which no Muslim adopts but he will attain this
characteristic. They were explained by Imam Ibn al-Qayyim as follows:
Humility comes from knowing about Allaah and
His names and attributes, and His greatness, venerating Him, loving Him and being in awe of Him; and also from knowing about oneself and one’s
faults, and weaknesses. From that may develop the attitude of humility, which means feeling helpless before Allaah, and being humble and
compassionate towards His slaves, so that the person does not feel superior towards anyone, or think that he has any rights over anyone else;
rather he thinks that others are better than him, and that their rights come before his. This is a characteristic that Allaah gives to those whom
He loves, honours and draws close to Him.
Al-Rooh, p. 233.
There are many reports which speak of the
reward of humility. For example:
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah that the
Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Wealth does not decrease because of charity, and Allaah increases His
slave in honour when he forgives others. And no one humbles himself before Allaah but Allaah will raise him (in status).”
Narrated by Muslim, 2588. Al-Nawawi included
it in a chapter entitled: “The recommendation of forgiveness and humility.”
The Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) said: “And no one humbles himself before Allaah but Allaah will raise him (in status).” This is understood in two ways: the
first is that He will raise him (in status) in this world, and give him status in people’s hearts because of his humility, and give him a high
status in people’s eyes. The second is that what is meant is his reward in the Hereafter, where his status will be raised because of his humility
in this world.
The scholars said: It may be that both are meant, (and that his status will be raised) both in
this world and in the Hereafter. And Allaah knows best.
Humility may mean various things, such as:
A person humbling himself to the commands and prohibitions of Allaah, doing what He commands and
avoiding what He forbids.
Ibn al-Qayyim said:
Because a person may hesitate to obey His
commands out of laziness, thus behaving in a reluctant way in an attempt to flee from servitude towards Allaah, and his soul may have the desire
to commit haraam actions, but when the person humbles himself to the commands and prohibitions of Allaah, he will humble himself to true
Al-Rooh p. 233.
Humbling oneself before the might, majesty and power of Allaah.
Ibn al-Qayyim said:
Every time he feels that he is great, he
remembers the might of Allaah and that might belongs to Him only, and he remembers His intense anger against those who compete with Him in that,
then he humbles himself before Him and submits to the might of Allaah. This is the ultimate humility and inevitably includes the first type of
humility mentioned above, but the converse can never apply (i.e., this type of humility inevitably leads to the first type, but a person may
submit to the commands and prohibitions of Allaah but he does not humble himself before His might).
The one who is truly humble is the one who is
blessed with both. And Allaah is the One Whose help we seek.
Humility in one’s dress and manner of walking.
It was narrated from Ibn ‘Umar that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) said: “Whilst a man was letting his garment drag out of pride, he was swallowed up by the earth and will continue sinking in it until the Day
Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 3297.
It was also narrated by al-Bukhaari (5452)
and Muslim (2088) from the hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah. According to the version narrated by al-Bukhaari: “Whilst a man was walking in a garment
admiring himself with his hair nicely combed, Allaah caused (the earth) to swallow him up and he will continue sinking in it until the Day of
Humility towards one who is of a lesser status and helping him
It was narrated that al-Bara’ ibn ‘Aazib
said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was moving soil with us on the day of al-Ahzaab, and I saw him with dust
covering the whiteness of his stomach, and he (the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)) was saying, “(O Allaah)! Without You,
we would not have been guided, nor would we have given in charity, nor would we have prayed. So (O Allaah!) send tranquility (Sakeenah) upon us as
they (the chiefs of the enemy tribes) have rebelled against us. And if they intend affliction (i.e. want to frighten us and fight against us) then
we would not (flee but would withstand them).” And he raised his voice whilst saying it.
Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6809; Muslim, 1803.
Humility in interactions with one’s wife and helping her.
It was narrated that al-Aswad said: I asked
‘Aa’ishah what the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to do in his house, and she said: He used to serve his family and
when the time for prayer came he would go out and pray.
Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar said:
This shows that we are encouraged to be
humble and not arrogant, and that a man should serve his family.
Humility towards the young and joking with them.
It was narrated that Anas said: The Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was the best of people in character. I had a brother whose name was Abu ‘Umayr. He said, I think
he was weaned, and when he (the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)) came he would say, “O Abu Umayr, what happened to the
nughayr (a small bird that he kept as a pet)?”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5850; Muslim, 2150.
The nughayr is a small bird.
This hadeeth teaches us many things, such as being kind to small children. This demonstrates
the good character of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and how he was of noble character and humble.
Humility towards servants and slaves
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah
be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If the servant of one of you brings his food and he
does not want to make him sit and eat with him, then let him offer him a morsel or two, because he has prepared it and served it.”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 2418 and 5144;
We ask Allaah to make us among those who
humble themselves before His might.
And Allaah knows best.