Praise be to Allaah.
There are many rulings to do with menstruation, more than
twenty, of which we will mention those which we think are most essential.
They are:
1 – Prayer
It is haraam for a menstruating woman to pay both obligatory
and naafil prayers, and they are not valid if she does them. She does not
have to do a particular prayer unless she was pure or became pure with
enough time to perform a complete rak’ah, in which case she has to do the
prayer, whether it is at the beginning of the time for it or at the end. An
example of that happening at the beginning of the time for prayer is a woman
who got her menses after the sun set but she had enough time to perform a
complete rak’ah (but she did not do it), so when she becomes pure she has to
make up that Maghrib prayer, because she had enough time to perform a
complete rak’ah before she got her menses.
An example of that happening at the end of the time for
prayer is a woman whose menses ended before the sun rose and there was
enough time left to perform a complete rak’ah. When she becomes pure she has
to make up that Fajr prayer, because she had enough time to perform one
rak’ah.
But if there is not enough time to perform a rak’ah, such as
in the first scenario, if a woman gets her menses a moment after the sun
sets or, in the second scenario, she becomes pure a moment before the sun
rises, then she does not have to do that prayer, because the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever catches up with a
rak’ah of prayer has caught up with the prayer.” Agreed upon.
With regard to dhikr, takbeer, saying Subhaan-Allaah,
praising Allaah, saying Bismillaah when eating and so on, and reading
hadeeth, fiqh and du’aa’s, or saying Ameen to du’aa’s, and listening to
Qur’aan, none of these things are forbidden to her. It is proven in
al-Saheehayn and elsewhere that the Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allaah be upon him) used to recline in ‘Aa’ishah’s lap (may Allaah be
pleased with her) when she was menstruating, and he would recite Qur'aan.
In al-Saheehayn it is also narrated from Umm ‘Atiyyah
that she heard the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)
say: “Let the girls who have attained puberty, women in seclusion and
menstruating women go out – i.e., to the Eid prayer – and witness good and
the gathering of the believers. But let the menstruating women avoid the
prayer place.”
With regard to the menstruating woman reading Qur’aan, if she
is looking at it or thinking of it in her heart, without speaking the words
out loud, there is nothing wrong with that, such as if the Mus-haf is placed
there, and she looks at the verses and reads them in her heart. Al-Nawawi
said in Sharh Muslim: it is permissible and there is no
difference of scholarly opinion on this point.
But if she is reciting it out loud, the majority of scholars
are of the view that this is not allowed.
Al-Bukhaari, Ibn Jareer, al-Tabari and Ibn al-Mundhir said it
is permissible, and this was also narrated from Maalik and from al-Shaafa’i
in his former view. That was narrated from them in Fath al-Baari. And
al-Bukhaari narrated in a mu’allaq report from Ibraheem al-Nakha’i that
there is nothing wrong with her reciting a verse.
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said in al-Fataawa: There
is no report saying that she should not read Qur’aan. The hadeeth “No
menstruating woman or person who is junub should recite anything from the
Qur’aan” is a weak hadeeth, according to the consensus of the scholars who
are well-versed in hadeeth. Women used to menstruate at the time of the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and if reading was
haraam for them as prayer is, this would have been something that the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) explained to his
ummah and the Mothers of the Believers would have known that, and it would
have been something that they told to the people. But since no one narrated
any prohibition concerning that from the Prophet (peace and blessings
of Allaah be upon him), it is not permissible to regard it as haraam, since
it is known that he did not forbid that, and as he did not forbid that
despite the fact that menstruation was widespread at his time, it is known
that it is not haraam. End quote.
Since we know that there is a difference of opinion among the
scholars concerning this, what should be said is: it is better for a
menstruating woman not to recite Qur'aan out loud except when there is need
for that, such as if she is a teacher and she needs to teach her students,
or in the case of an exam when the student needs to recite in order to be
tested, and so on.
2 – Fasting
It is haraam for a menstruating woman to fast, whether it is
an obligatory or a naafil fast, and it is not valid if she does it. But she
has to make up any obligatory fasts that she misses, because of the hadeeth
of ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) who said: “That – meaning
menses – used to happen to us and we were commanded to make up fasts but we
were not commanded to make up prayers.” Agreed upon.
If a woman gets her menses when she is fasting, her fast
becomes invalid even if that happens just before Maghrib, and she has to
make up that day if it was an obligatory fast.
But if she feels that the period was coming before Maghrib,
but no blood came out until after the sun set, then her fast is complete and
is not invalidated, according to the correct view, because there is no
ruling connected to blood that is still inside the body, and when the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) was asked about a
woman who sees in a dream what a man sees (i.e., an erotic dream), does she
have to do ghusl? He said: “Yes, if she sees water.” So the ruling is
connected to seeing water, not feeling body sensations. The same applies to
menses: the rulings do not apply until it is seen outside the body, not just
the body sensations.
If dawn comes when the woman is menstruating, it is not valid
for her to fast that day even if she becomes pure even a moment after dawn.
If she becomes pure just before dawn and fasts, her fast is
valid even if she does not do ghusl until after dawn. This is like the one
who is junub – if he intends to fast when he is junub and dos not do ghusl
until after dawn breaks, his fast is valid, because of the hadeeth of
‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) who said: The Prophet (peace
and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to wake up junub as the result of
intercourse, not a wet dream, and he would fast in Ramadaan. Agreed upon.
3 – Tawaaf around the Ka’bah
It is haraam for a menstruating woman to circumambulate the
Ka’bah, whether that is obligatory or naafil, and it is not valid if she
does it, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) said to ‘Aa’ishah when she got her menses: “Do everything that the
pilgrims do, but do not circumambulate the House until you become pure.”
As for the other actions of Hajj, such as saa’ee between
al-Safa and al-Marwah, standing at ‘Arafah, staying overnight in Muzdalifah
and Mina, stoning the jamaraat and other rituals of Hajj and ‘Umrah, they
are not haraam for her. Based on that, if a female does tawaaf when she is
pure, then her period begins immediately after she does tawaaf, or during
sa’ee, there is nothing wrong with that.
4 – Tawaaf al-wadaa’ (the farewell tawaaf) is waived in
her case
If a female completes the rituals of Hajj and ‘Umrah, then
she gets her menses before she goes home and that continues until she
leaves, she may depart without doing the farewell tawaaf, because of the
hadeeth of Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him) who said: (the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)) told
the people that the last thing they should do was (tawaaf) around the House,
but he made an exception for women who were menstruating . Agreed
upon.
But the tawaaf that is required
for Hajj and ‘Umrah is not waived, and she must do it when she becomes
pure.
5 – Staying in the mosque
It is haraam for the menstruating
woman to stay in the mosque and even in the Eid prayer-place, because of the
hadeeth of Umm ‘Atiyyah (may Allaah be pleased with her), who said that she
heard the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say:
“Let the girls who have attained puberty, women
in seclusion and menstruating women go out – i.e., to the Eid prayer.” In
this hadeeth it says: “But let the menstruating women avoid the prayer
place.” Agreed upon.
6 – Intercourse
It is haraam for her husband to
have intercourse with her, and it is haraam for her to allow him to do so,
because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“They ask you concerning
menstruation. Say: that is an Adha (a harmful thing for a husband to have a
sexual intercourse with his wife while she is having her menses), therefore,
keep away from women during menses and go not unto them till they are
purified (from menses and have taken a bath)”
[al-Baqarah 2:222]
What is meant by maheed
(translated here as menstruation) is the time of menses, and the location of
this menses is the private part.
And the Prophet (peace and
blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Do everything except have
intercourse.” Narrated by Muslim.
And the Muslims are unanimously
agreed that it is haraam to have intercourse with a menstruating woman in
her vagina.
But it is permissible for him to
do that which will satisfy his desire without having intercourse, such as
kissing, touching and intimacy that is less than intercourse, but it is
better not to be intimate with that which is between the navel and the knee
except through a barrier, because ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her)
said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to
tell me to wear a waist wrapper, then he would be intimate with me when I
was menstruating. Agreed upon.
7 – Divorce
It is haraam for a husband to
divorce a menstruating woman during her menses, because Allaah says
(interpretation of the meaning):
“O Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allaah be
upon him)! When
you divorce women, divorce them at their ‘Iddah (prescribed periods)”
[al-Talaaq 65:1]
and that can only be if they are
divorced when they are pregnant or pure without having had intercourse since
the menses ended. Because if a woman is divorced when she is menstruating
she cannot start her ‘iddah, because the menstrual period during which she
was divorced cannot be counted as part of the ‘iddah; and if she is divorced
when she is pure but has had intercourse since her period ended, she cannot
start her ‘iddah, because it cannot be known whether she became pregnant
from this intercourse. So it should be reckoned by her pregnancy, or if she
is not pregnant it should be reckoned by her menstrual cycle. If it cannot
be ascertained what sort of 'iddah it is, it is haraam for him to divorce
her until things become clear.
Divorcing a menstruating woman at
the time of her menses is haraam because of the verse quoted above, and
because of the report in al-Saheehayn and elsewhere from Ibn ‘Umar
who said that he divorced his wife when she was menstruating. ‘Umar told the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) about that, and the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) got angry and said:
“Tell him to take her back and keep her until she becomes pure, then
menstruates, then becomes pure again. Then if he wishes he may keep her
after that, or if he wishes he may divorce her before he touches (has
intercourse with) her. That is the prescribed period within which Allaah has
enjoined divorce of women.”
If a man divorces his wife when
she is menstruating, he is sinning and he has to repent to Allaah and take
the woman back in order to divorce her in the prescribed manner as enjoined
by Allaah and His Messenger. Then he should leave her alone after he takes
her back until she becomes pure from the menses during which he divorced
her, then menstruates again, then when she becomes pure again, if he wishes
he may keep her or if he wishes he may divorce her before having intercourse
with her.
There are three cases where an
exception is made from the prohibition on divorcing a woman during her
menses:
1 – If the divorce occurs before
he spent time alone with her or touched her. There is nothing wrong with him
divorcing her when she is menstruating, because in that case she does not
have to observe any ‘iddah, so this divorce does not go against the words of
Allaah, “divorce them at their ‘Iddah (prescribed periods)”.
2 – If the menses occurs during
pregnancy.
3 – If the divorce takes place in
return for some compensation, in which case there is nothing wrong with
divorcing her when she is menstruating.
There is nothing wrong with doing
a marriage contract with a woman who is menstruating, because the basic
principle is that it is permissible, and there is no evidence to suggest
otherwise. But the idea of the husband entering upon her when she is
menstruating is subject to further discussion. If he can be trusted not to
have intercourse with her, there is nothing wrong with it, otherwise he
should not enter upon her until she becomes pure, for fear of his doing
something that is forbidden.
8 – Reckoning the ‘iddah of
divorce by means of the menstrual cycle
If a man divorces his wife after
having had intercourse with her or being alone with her, then she has to
observe an ‘iddah of three complete menstrual cycles, if she is a woman who
menstruates and she is not pregnant, because Allaah says (interpretation of
the meaning):
“And divorced women shall wait
(as regards their marriage) for three menstrual periods”
[al-Baqarah 2:228]
If she is pregnant, her ‘iddah
lasts until her pregnancy ends, whether the time is long or short, because
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And for those who are pregnant
(whether they are divorced or their husbands are dead), their ‘Iddah
(prescribed period) is until they lay down their burden”
[al-Talaaq 65:4]
If a woman does not menstruate
because she is old or she had had a hysterectomy, or for some other reason
and there is no hope that she will menstruate again, then her 'iddah is
three months, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And those of your women as
have passed the age of monthly courses, for them the ‘Iddah (prescribed
period), if you have doubt (about their periods), is three months; and for
those who have no courses [(i.e. they are still immature) their ‘Iddah
(prescribed period) is three months likewise”
[al-Talaaq 65:4]
If a woman normally menstruates
but her menses have ceased for a reason such as sickness or breastfeeding,
then she should observe the 'iddah no matter how long it lasts, until her
menses returns and she can count her 'iddah. If the reason ceases but her
periods do not come back, such as if she recovers from sickness or stops
breastfeeding and still does not menstruate, then she should observe ‘iddah
for a full year from the time the reason ceased. This is the correct view
which is based on Islamic principles, because if the reason ceases and her
periods do not come back, she is like one whose periods have stopped for no
apparent reason, and if her periods stop for no apparent reason then she
should observe an ‘iddah of one year – nine months for pregnancy based on
the usual length of pregnancy, and three months for the 'iddah.
*But if the divorce takes place
after the marriage contract is done and before intimacy or being alone
together, then there is no 'iddah at all, whether it is reckoned by the
menstrual cycle or otherwise, because Allaah says (interpretation of the
meaning):
“O you who believe! When you
marry believing women, and then divorce them before you have sexual
intercourse with them, no ‘Iddah [divorce prescribed period, see (V.65:4)]
have you to count in respect of them”
[al-Ahzaab 33:49]
9 – Establishing the absence of
pregnancy
This is required every time there
is a need for a ruling that there is no pregnancy. There are many issues
connected to this.
10 –Requirement of ghusl
When the menstruating woman’s
period ends, she must do ghusl by purifying her entire body, because the
Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to Faatimah
bint Abu Hubaysh: “When the time of your menses comes, stop praying, then
when it ends, do ghusl and pray.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari.
*The minimum that is required for
ghusl is to ensure that water reaches every part of the body, even beneath
the hair. But it is better if it is done in the manner mentioned in the
hadeeth from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him),
when Asma’ bint Shakl asked him how a menstruating woman should do ghusl. He
(peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: One of you should
take her water and lotus leaves and purify herself and purify herself well.
Then she should pour water over her head and rub it vigorously, so that it
reaches the roots of her hair, and pour water over herself. Then she should
take a piece of cloth that is scented with musk and purify herself with it.”
Asma’ said: “How should she purify herself with it?” He said: ‘Subhaan
Allaah, let her purify herself with it.” ‘Aa’ishah said to her: “She
should follow the traces of blood.”
Narrated by Muslim.
*She does not have to undo the
braids in her hair, unless they are tied so tightly that she fears that the
water will not reach the roots, because of the hadeeth of Umm Salamah (may
Allaah be pleased with her) that is narrated in Saheeh Muslim, where
she asked the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and
said: I am a woman with braided hair; should I undo it when doing ghusl
following menses or for janaabah? He said: “No, rather it will be sufficient
for you to pour three handfuls of water on your head, then pour water over
yourself and you will be purified.”
If a menstruating woman becomes
pure during the time for prayer, she must hasten to do ghusl so that she can
offer the prayer on time. If she is travelling and does not have any water,
or she has water but she is afraid that she may be harmed by using it, or
she is sick and the water will harm her, then she should do tayammum instead
of ghusl, until the reason for not doing it ceases, then she should do
ghusl.
Some women become pure at the time
for prayer, but they delay ghusl until later, saying that they cannot purify
themselves fully in this time. But this is no excuse, because they can limit
themselves to the minimum that is required in ghusl and do the prayer on
time, then when they have more time they can purify themselves more fully.
End quote.
These are the most important
rulings that have to do with menses in women.
Risaalah fi’l-Dima’ al-Tabee’iyyah li’l-Nisa’
by Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him).